Adult DBT Skills Group · Pittsburgh
A curriculum for a life worth living
The four DBT skill modules, taught across eight cycles, with each week touching every domain. The plan below is the actual rotation a Center for Discovery skills group runs, adapted from Linehan and ordered so the body has a chance to learn before the mind insists on understanding.
I. The arc
Stages of treatment
Linehan’s four stages name where a patient is in the work, so the work in front of us can be appropriate to the work the body is actually capable of doing now. Each stage resolves before the next one opens; if a stage destabilizes, the work returns to it.
- Stage 1Severe behavioral dyscontrol Behavioral control
Moving out of crisis. The work is to stop the behavior that is making other work impossible.
- Stage 2Quiet desperation Non-anguished experiencing
The crisis has passed; the suffering remains. The work is to feel without being pulled under.
- Stage 3Problems in living Ordinary happiness and unhappiness
A regular life, with its regular problems. The work is to address those problems as themselves, not as proxies for older injuries.
- Stage 4Incompleteness Capacity for joy and freedom
The work that begins after symptom relief: the existential question of what a life is for.
II. What gets addressed first
Target behavior hierarchy
In Stage 1 the order matters. We address what is threatening the life before we address what is interfering with therapy, and we address what is interfering with therapy before we address what is interfering with quality of life. The pyramid is read from the bottom up.
- Life Worth Living Creating a Life Worth Living
- Building Skills Increasing Behavioral Skills
- Quality of Life Decreasing Quality-of-Life-Interfering Behavior
- Therapy-Interfering Decreasing Therapy-Interfering Behavior
- Life-Threatening Decreasing Life-Threatening Behavior
What that looks like
Life-Threatening
- Self-injurious behavior
- Suicidal ideation
- Consistent eating disorder behaviors
- Unsafe living environment
Therapy-Interfering
- Not attending program on scheduled days
- Arriving late or leaving early
- No clear treatment goals identified
- Denial of severity
- Refusal or willfulness around weekly tasks
Quality of Life
- Restricting
- Bingeing
- Purging
- Exercising outside movement plan
- Not attending school or work
- Withdrawal from people
Building Skills
- Daily diary card practice
- Skills coaching outside session
- Generalization to natural environment
Life Worth Living
- Mindfulness
- Distress Tolerance
- Emotion Regulation
- Interpersonal Effectiveness
- Pleasant activities
- School, work, vocational engagement
- Social environments
III. How the room is held
Working assumptions
Linehan’s seven assumptions are the load-bearing dispositions a DBT therapist holds about the people in the room. Center for Discovery’s eating-disorder protocol restates each one in language that meets the specific resistance of the population. Both columns are true at once.
Patients are doing the best they can.
Doing the best they can with their current resources and capacities.
Patients want to improve.
Patients can recognize the barriers and obstacles that are getting in the way.
Patients need to do better, try harder, and be more motivated.
Taking accountability through engagement and reflection. Learning the difference between intention and impact.
Patients may not have caused all of their problems, but they have to solve them anyway.
Circumstances are often unfair; patient engagement and self-reflection are still an important ingredient for change.
Patients are living unbearable lives as they are now.
They have outgrown their coping strategies.
Patients must learn new behaviors in all relevant contexts.
A beginner’s mind: the willingness to be a learner again.
Patients cannot fail in DBT.
Healing is messy and non-linear; “failure” is required for ongoing evolution.
IV. The skill ladder
Which skill, at what intensity
Skills are not interchangeable. The right move at a 9 is the wrong move at a 3, and vice versa. The thermometer below pairs a self-rating with a tier of skills that fit the body in that moment.
Find your zone
The regulation scale runs from -10 (dorsal shutdown) through 0 (the window of tolerance) to +10 (peak sympathetic elevation). Different zones call for different skills. Drag the marker.
Elevation
High sympathetic activation. Panic, rage, hyperarousal. The thinking brain has been overrun by the survival brain.
- TIPP
- STOP
- Distractions (ACCEPTS)
- Crisis Survival
Activation
Sympathetic mobilization. Anxiety, anger, urgency. PFC partially online; the body is picking up speed.
- Self-Soothe (five senses)
- Mindfulness
- Paced breathing
- Pros & Cons
- Wise Mind
Window of tolerance
Ventral vagal. Regulated, present, social engagement online. The zone where new learning actually consolidates.
- DEAR MAN
- Check the Facts
- Wise Mind
- Mindfulness practices
- Emotion Myths work
Collapse
Functional shutdown. Heavy, hopeless, low energy, "I can’t." Sub-threshold dorsal.
- Opposite Action
- Pleasant Activities
- Accumulating Positives
- ABC PLEASE
Shut down
Dorsal vagal collapse. The body has gone offline because the threat exceeded what mobilization could solve.
- TIPP (cold water, intense exercise)
- Behavioral activation
- Opposite Action (do anything)
Centered. Body and mind matched.
Inside the Window of tolerance. This is the working zone — skills that require thinking, asking, or processing belong here.
Negative values mark dorsal-vagal territory: collapse, shutdown, the body going offline. Positive values mark sympathetic mobilization: activation, elevation, the body picking up speed. Zero is ventral-vagal regulation. Most skills install best in the middle band; the extremes need crisis tools first.
V. The thirty-two
The full curriculum
Four domains, eight modules, thirty-two skills. Every module touches all four domains in the same week, so a skill in mindfulness gets practiced beside a skill in distress tolerance and one in interpersonal effectiveness. The body learns the rotation, not just the individual skills.
Curriculum at a glance
Four domains, eight modules. Each cell is a clickable skill.
| Domain | M1 | M2 | M3 | M4 | M5 | M6 | M7 | M8 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Mindful Awareness | Pros / Cons | Wise Mind | Wisemind Imagery | What / How Skills ● | Non-judgementalness | Mindful Perspectives | Loving Kindness | Doing / Being |
| Distress Tolerance | STOP ● | TIPP | ACCEPTS ● | Self-Soothing | Improve the Movement | Radical Acceptance | Turning the Mind | Chain Analysis |
| Emotion Regulation | Naming Emotions | Emotion Myths ● | Describing Emotions ● | Check the Facts ● | Opposite Action | ABC PLEASE | Pleasant Activities | Values / Priorities |
| Interpersonal Effectiveness | Myths of IE ● | DEAR MAN ● | GIVE FAST ● | Options / Saying No ● | Building / Ending Relationships | Middle Path | Validation | Assertiveness |
VI. The diagnostic spine
Chain analysis
When a target behavior happens in the week between sessions, the next session reverse-engineers it. The chain analysis worksheet maps every step from the conditions that preceded the trigger through the urge’s commitment to behavior, and looks for places where a different skill could have entered.
The chain, mapped
Chain analysis is the diagnostic spine of DBT. A behavior is reverse-engineered into the sequence that produced it; each link is examined for an earlier place a skill could have interrupted the chain. Hover any circle.
Tracing the sequence backward turns a behavior that felt like it came out of nowhere into a chain with an examinable structure.
Adjacent
Other gatherings
Work that runs alongside the curriculum: process groups, depth-psychological complements, and special-population modules.
- Process Group Open-ended group work, the older and slower form.
- C.A.R.E. — Calm Nervous-system regulation in a partner’s presence. First of four dimensions.
- C.A.R.E. — Accepted Which version of you the relationship knows. Second of four dimensions.
- Life Worth Living Existential anchor for Stage 4 work.
- Golden Shadow Depth-psychological complement to skill training.
- Neurodivergence Affinity A ten-session closed cohort for ND adults, allies, and the curious.
- DBT-EFT for Relationships Where DBT skills meet emotionally-focused therapy.
- Adolescent Brain Science For parents: what the research actually says about teens.
- The Cringe Reflex For teens: vicarious embarrassment, the closeness effect, and the 2am replay.
- GOATED Neuroscience For teens: the five mechanisms running your nervous system. Pinball, myth-bust, soundboard chassis.
- TIPP for Teens Adolescent crisis distress tolerance with an interactive SUDs thermometer.
- The Story of Me The default mode network, the loop it gets stuck in, and what attention training actually does.
- Mental Health Glow-Up Stage 3 wellness practice for adults out of crisis.
- Name It to Ask It A short module on the language between an emotion and a request.
- Real Glow Up Dynamics Adolescent process group. Witness capacity glow-ups in each other; practice receiving without deflecting.
- What & How Skills (Adolescent) Adolescent mindfulness group with a 3×3 combo builder. Three Whats and three Hows; nine combos to unlock.